Let me post what happen in tkd okie? i think its rather interesting ^^
and perhaps this is another major turning point of my life... ...
The actors are V-vic (me), Z-lum (my tkd 'bro') , K-kent (tkd + karate + fighter) , L-lim (leader of K,X,Y + Sun's lesson) , X-X (their friend), Y-Y (their friend) , B-BC (one of them, but more mature) , S-sir (my respectable coach)
on 24 july, thursday night's tkd training, everything was as usual until 4 people came, which they normally dont come, coz they only train on sundays. They are the K,L,X and Y. They said they were coming to train for sparring tournaments~
meanwhile Z came down to "see see" in his home clothes.
L: Z ah...go change Gi and come down train leh~
Z: orh okie~
Then that Z never come down. After whole training, Left V,L,K,X,Y. K approches V.
K: Oi V...why that Z never come down...hum ah!!!
V: er...maybe he tired or wad...
K: eh i tell u hor...i very straight one okie...so i tell u...as long as one day he dont come down and fight me, we will always come here and make this place unrest~u better tell him~
V: u all is it got some misunderstanding?
K: WAT misunderstanding...he !@#$% kick gal's back la...no control la...$%^^&&
V: maybe he hit once...or not purposely de??
K: WAT not purposely...3 times!!! 3 TIMES not gu yi???
L: you better think b4 u speak...
(before that K also said V's his 2nd dan is put money on examiner's face then pass one la...everyone can do it... i'm afraid to say, not everyone has the abilty to pass.
he also said he dont respect those cant fight~~)
Z was V's tkd bro...friends for so long. what would he do? of cause he would msg and tell Z! moreover V told him he would go down with Z on sunday to clear the misunderstanding. Not very long after that... Z's father called V
Z's father: who wana beat my son up??? who are they to do that? i gona call my gang to come down...!!!
V: sunday we go down tgt settle it~
Few minutes later --->
BC: V ah...what did K want to tell Z?
V: he wana fight with Z...you better ownself call K ask him what is happening...i'm just a messenger
Few hours later---> on msn.
V got a zzz/pissed off feeling...
Z: V...is this somekind of joke? its not funny!
V: huh? what joke?
Z: BC said K was just joking~
V: u think i would bluff u? u think i will joke bout this? we how long de fren le? how long de bro??? HAHA... i'm totally disappointed in u~
Z: okie...i'll let the matter rest...S said that if always got problem, will close sunday's class..
i will also not go down until everything has rested~
++note++
who can feel what V is feeling? he protected his friend and get shoot back.
V decided to let it rest den.
on 31 july which was 2days ago, training night. V was busy therefore he did not go for the training until the lesson gonna end. He entered. To his amuse...he was surrounded by L.
L: who teach the yellow belt their pattern one ah?? so lousy! who ah!!! come! V ah..why ah!
V: ?! who teach one? i just came?! ++wth look++
L: not you teach one meh? Z said u teach one!
V: HUH? i teach one? u think i will teach wrong?
L: Z say one... (Z walked towards us)
Z: yar..their pattern so bad...so terrible~~
V: huh??? u think i will teach wrong? i teach them right de...if they nver do properly is my fault? the worst thing is...IS it i teach de? pls la...don anyhow say la... ++damn look++
I officiated in Inter-Jc i officiated in National poomsae com...u think i anyhow at dere? u think i will teach them wrong? ++shouting mode++ ++damn pissed mode++
L and Z just walked away coz they know the kenna stepped by me.
++note++
V was pissed coz lucky he went to training to look if not he would be accused by his tkd 'bro' - greater disappointment for him. Take note he mentioned yellow belts? it is just after white, and can say is the basic. In addition, V was only specialised in teaching color belt...maybe he say V teach higher belt wrong, maybe V will less pissed.
(lucky V's gf was there to give him support coz he almost went bonkers...)
After thinking for one day~... V felt that K's so called respect is childish~he didnt win any of V's respect and the Z's friendship not worthy to maintain so let the wind take it away.
V went to seek S's enlightenment and advices. He said V was too sensitive~ perhaps V's dint inform Z that matter everything will still be fine. In fact V could worsen the matter by doing so.
V agrees to learn from this lesson.
++note++
certain things when gone really means gone. That includes friendship. And that maturity does not depends on the age~doesnt mean if you are older you are more mature.